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This week's news weighs heavily on the heart

Post by Dan Cummings- Sometimes, the emotional weight of the week's biggest news stories cannot be easily lifted. This was such a week.  Starting with a homicide of a Syracuse teen last weekend, tragic loss of life multiplied as the week went along.  A longtime school teacher in Jordan-Elbridge dies in a motor vehicle accident.  Her husband, a volunteer firefighter, was among the first responders to the accident scene.  A young man dies in a motorcycle accident, and his two brothers somehow push forward to keep playing lacrosse, as members of the Final Four-bound SU Orange.

And, two young children and their mom die in an Eastwood house fire.  Firefighters never had a chance to save any of them. 

I bet I'm a little like most of you who might read this.  You didn't personally know any of these people... whose lives were suddenly cut short by fire, accident, or violence.  But regardless, you identify with the surviving family members, friends and others who DID know them...and will never see them again.  And like them, you ask "why?"  When that one-word question isn't answered for you (it never is...it can't be), you whisper or say aloud a prayer or two (or a hundred), hug your own family a few extra times...and move on.  All the while knowing that for so many in our community...those who WERE touched directly by these tragic losses...there really IS no moving on.  Nothing will ever be the same for them.

Published Friday, May 23, 2008 10:19 PM by Dan C

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docbud said:

Dan--

Life sucks!

You can't ask why. And for all the folks who have died that the news (and your station) covers, there are thousands and thousands who don't get the same attention.

I just lost a brother to brain cancer right before Christmas (no one knew he had it and he died within 2 months), and my twin sister just found out she has breast cancer and has to have a double mastectomy and chemo.

No one out there is feeling my pain or my family's.

I do see what you are saying--that one identifies with it and can feel and understand what one is going through.

But how about the tears and comfort for folks who die who don't make the headlines or aren't jocks, or famous?

I apologize, Dan, and don't mean to be out of line.

But--what is up with everyone someone dies or has a bad day, a benefit is held? Doesn't anyone today have a savings account or life insurance?

doc
May 25, 2008 8:30 PM
 

amy said:

Re:  Benefits....Sometimes the life insurance is the first thing cut when money is short and a savings account is unheard of for these families.  They need every bit of their money for food, gas, and other necessities...those who can afford should offer our help during these families times of need.  Even if we all gave a tiny amount, it adds up for these people in times of dire need.  They are all young and don't think about saving for the unthinkable.  I say, help out when you can, and you'll see the rewards.
May 26, 2008 9:52 AM
 

cocodog said:

No one wants or expects trajedy to strike in their own backyard.  But when it does, we as humans can give our prayers, support, and unconditional love to those that are hurting the most.  We had a friend's son (22 yrs. old) killed on MC accident, a six year old student from my wife's school die from MV accident, and another 16 yr old local boy die from MV accident.  The list has been very long in recent weeks of loss of life from various forms of tragedies in central NY, and whether young or old, it isn't easy for the communities and families to cope with such heartache.  I pray for all those who read this to give your loved ones a hug and a kiss and TELL them how much you love and appreciate them.  God Bless America !
May 26, 2008 10:43 AM
 

docbud said:

amy--I know what you are saying. But it seems like every time someone dies or has to go into the hospital donations are wanted.

This donation stuff has grown bigger and bigger. At one time it really was meant for help. The benefits and stuff were for those in dire need. But now it seems that it  is now an everyday occurrence. If someone falls on hard times or dies, a benefit it held. Like it its expected or a right or something.

I give to some benefits, but it's getting to the point that enough is enough.

doc



May 26, 2008 5:51 PM
 

lizzy martini said:

Every sad story touches someone in a unique way. Just give ,feel and reach out if you feel it in your heart. People know when your genuine. Stand for what you feel,so broken hearts arme,t faced to fall for anything. God Bless all your hearts and losses, please!!!!!
May 27, 2008 1:41 AM
 

albedor said:

Compassion.  Don't forget, when bad things happen to you, they happen to all.... all around the world.  It doesn't make it any easier to cope, but if you remember when something tragic happens, there are others out there suffering just like you, maybe you wont' need to ask the question why.  It just is.. Its called life, and at times its very trying.
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